Thursday, May 16, 2013

Coping with Irritations

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This is turning out to be another week full of various interruptions, disruptions, and tribulations, as well as a few accomplishments. 

A blog I follow specializes in pretty verse cards with a vintage theme, such as the one I've posted above. The one she posted most recently really spoke to my heart.  It is true that hard times can produce patience in us -- a special understanding of how life works. Although it is the rare person who enjoys waiting, trying experiences teach us reality and how to cope with the difficulties.

If we will cooperate with the process, making efforts to not lose our temper but rather to respond with a peaceful spirit, we will develop admirable character and a faith that cannot be shaken.

Lest you think I have achieved this, let me assure you I have not.  The Lord has apparently decided this is the right time for me to take a course in "Coping with Irritations."  The "pop quizzes" have been numerous and to be truthful, I have failed to exhibit a winsome personality more times than I want to say.  I take that to mean I'll be tested further until I learn the lessons well. 

Writing about this matter with a sense of humor helps me to cope.  Perhaps as you read about my experiences you will learn and be spared some of the hardships I've endured.  A Bible teacher I admire has said, "Learn from the mistakes of others.  You don't have time to make them all."

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

A Good-for-You Breakfast

sweet potato, carrots, pineapple


Life is gradually settling down here at Pine Tree Place.  We have been in our new house just one night shy of 3 weeks as I type this post. Every day it seems more like home to us but we continue to face changes of all kinds, most of which are welcome. 

Due to circumstances pretty much beyond our control, our annual physicals, eye exams, dental appointments, and the need to buy new tires for one of the cars have all had to be done throughout the packing, moving, and unpacking process.  Case in point, this week Beloved and I had thorough medical exams for our eyes, and one of us gets to go back for more tests.


My Juiceman Juicer made quick work of this beverage.
Line the bucket with a plastic shopping bag
to make clean-up so much easier.

With eye health on my mind, today I am sharing with you a recipe for a peeper-friendly juice that Surfer Girl recommended to me. I thought it was great; you may want to give it a try(if you have a juicer, that is).


Sweet Potato Dream
inspired by www.rawrawlife.com

Sweet Potato Dream (makes 1-2 servings)

1 sweet potato, peeled

6 carrots, washed well

1/2 fresh pineapple (I used the kind that is already peeled and sliced from the grocer's produce section)


Prepare the ingredients and run them through a juicer. Drink immediately for maximum health and taste benefits.


breakfast

My healthy breakfast this morning was a hot cup of Green Tea, a glass of Sweet Potato Dream juice, and a slice of dark rye bread toasted and spread with nut butter (my favorite is MaraNatha All Natural No Stir Almond Butter, the creamy variety). That's 2 fresh veggies, 1 fresh fruit, a whole grain, and a good dose of protein in the nut butter.  








Sunday, May 12, 2013

Thoughts on Mother's Day

Surfer Girl with her son

I love this picture. While I don't know the sea shore or the exact time of day when the photo was taken  nor what my daughter is saying to my grandson, the message of the images is so sweet.

See how the mother is bent over to speak to her son so she can communicate something she wants him to know. Perhaps she has a sea shell in her hand and she is explaining ocean life.

Or, since he is not leaning in close to examine her hands, perhaps she is giving him some instruction about water safety.  

Whatever is being said, there is a private conversation going on there between mother and child.  How precious that is! How fleeting is that stage of a child's life when they will stand in silence to listen to what the parent has to say without [much] balking.

One of my greatest joys in life over the past nearly 13 years has been to observe my children as parents. It is a confirmation to see them passing on to their offspring lessons and concepts my husband and I taught them not so very long ago. (we must have said some things that were worth repeating!) 

Sometimes we hear them use the very words we spoke to them. "Stop crying or I'll give you something to cry about!" is one  humorous example of that. My father said it to me more than once; I said it, and one of my sons has used that same phrase with my grandchildren.

I think, too, about my parents in their raising of me and my younger sister. This has been a thoughtful week as the anniversary of my father's death came upon us quietly on Tuesday, followed just three days later with my mother's birthday and now Mother's Day. 

Every day I am grateful for my mother's life and influence on me.  She continues to teach me, not so much with words of instruction any more, but most assuredly with the example of her life.  I am grateful that the Lord has kept her mind sharp and that she enjoys interaction with me via emails several times a week.  Through my observance of how she faces aging and all that comes with that, I am learning how to live.

On this Mother's Day, I think about how thankful I am for good parenting, for a mother who diligently cared for me and did her best to steer me in the ways I should go.  Those of us who are blessed with children know what a tough assignment that is, going way past the pretty baby showers and the delightful scent of newborn babies.  

I am reminded of Mary, the mother of our Lord Jesus, who "kept all these things and pondered them in her heart." (Luke 2:19)  Let's ponder in our hearts today thoughts of gratefulness for those who cared for us and helped us to be where we are now.  If those people are still living, give thanks to the Lord for their beneficial influence and ask Him to bless them today. Be sure to tell them how much you appreciate them.

And for those for whom this day is quite painful,  there is always the wise counsel of my husband who says, "Never under estimate the value of a bad example." Even in those circumstances, God has provided us valuable life lessons that can benefit us greatly.









Thursday, May 9, 2013

A Lesson Learned

the bedspread from Walmart


As stated in my blog page titled, "Author," (see the tan bar above, between "Home" and "Faith and Family"), I am in a continuing education program in The School of Hard Knocks.  (Truth be told, we all are.)

In my previous post I extolled the good in my budget-friendly find of a bedspread set.  What I did not tell you was that it only looked perfect as you see in the above picture if we painstakingly tucked in every bit of the sheets and blanket under the spread and then pulled and tugged at the comforter to hide the sheets from view.  (see below)


the bed's "underwear" was showing


Clearly I had goofed and bought the set for a King-sized bed, not taking into consideration that we have a very deep mattress (18 inches).  What really irritated me was that I made this same error some ten years ago when I bought a pre-made quilt for this same bed in our previous house.  I distinctly remember seeking the counsel of my good friend, Quilting Queen (who lives in the Longhorn State), about this dilemma.  After emailing back and forth, I sewed a country flouncy ruffle to the edges of the quilt and all was well. 

But I didn't think the style of this new comforter would look good with a ruffle. Perhaps a shopping trip would stir  up my imagination. I came home with red bed sheets and a red blanket, thinking that if everything was pretty much the same color, all would be well.  

It wasn't.  It looked sloppy no matter how hard we tried, and the foundation fabric of the bedskirt (the part that lays across the box springs) was white.  It would invariably would peek out somewhere. We like to keep things neat and tidy around here. After putting up with that for several more days, yesterday I bit the bullet and paid considerably more at a different retailer to get a set where the comforter spread was significantly bigger in dimensions, perfectly covering the "underwear" of the sheets.  


the newest bedspread set

Clearly this entire experience was a case of "you get what you pay for."  I write this with some embarrassment. However, my professional blogging counselors say readers like for us to be real, to tell of our failures as well as our victories.  There you have it.

To close this out, I'll share with you a cheery breakfast beverage you might want to try if you have a powerful electric blender.  When Surfer Girl shared the recipe with me several weeks ago, it sounded strange, but I gave it a whirl and love it.  This is a healthy way to get your morning off to a great start!



Good Morning Juice

Surfer Girl's Good Morning Juice (makes 1-2 servings, depending on the amounts used)

Spinach*, fresh

1 orange, peeled and chopped (or you can use 1/2 cup of orange juice)

Basil, fresh

1 banana, optional (I always add the banana for a creamy texture)


Combine all ingredients in a high-powered blender until smooth. Serve with or without ice.

*Instead of fresh spinach, you can use a handful of fresh kale.  My Walmart sells bags of chopped kale, which makes dealing with this especially nutrient-dense vegetable so much easier. When combined with flavorful fruits (such as orange and banana), the taste of kale is covered up!


bag of fresh kale found in the
fresh produce aisle at Walmart





Sunday, May 5, 2013

Snapshots from the Move

We have finally moved into our new house, built by Richmond American. I have missed blogging but more pressing needs have been at the forefront of my mind.  For today's post, I have chosen about 20 of the snapshots taken over the last couple of weeks, some highlights.  A brief description is with each photo.  

More remains to be done before we can say we are all unpacked and settled in, but I am hopeful  time for blogging will be more frequent very soon.




We closed on the new house and began moving small things immediately. The moving truck would not be delivering the majority of our household goods for another week. This picture was taken from our family room window. More houses are under construction in our neighborhood.




Beloved stands on a step ladder to hang a bed sheet on a tension rod in the powder room. This is our window covering of choice until the permanent window treatments are installed.




The garage floor was power washed and sealed during the first two days of ownership. A few days after that had opportunity to dry, we had our people come in to paint the walls and ceiling white.  It's going to be a wonderful garage once Beloved has it all set up.




We enjoyed a couple of fast-food meals at the breakfast bar in the days before the furniture arrived.




Our new Sears Kenmore stainless steel refrigerator was delivered the day after closing.




A decorator from JCPenney came out to the house to measure the sliding glass door in the kitchen nook for draw drapes and to show me the many designer books of beautiful samples.  This is the fabric I chose.  There will also be a sheer draw drape under this fabric. The drapery rods and finials are made of brushed nickel.




Our front lawn was delivered in a neat stack one morning and then quickly laid out by a fast-moving team of 6 men.




Furniture we had purchased for more efficient storage was delivered.




The new house has less kitchen cabinetry, so we bought this piece for the kitchen nook. I am using it to store my serving bowls, platters, and placemats.  This is actually an entertainment center, but serves my purposes very well.




The representative from Milestone Shutters came to measure our windows. I had to choose which width of shutter slats I want.  Our previous house had the 3 1/2-inch wide slats (on the left). This time I am going with the 4 1/2 inch slats (on the right), to maximize our window views. These shutters are made of polywood and I highly recommend them. This is our third house in which we are having them custom-made for every window.  They are an excellent investment, help with maintaining heat and cold from the windows, and are a great asset when trying to sell the house.




Back at the old house, the packers took two days to put everything into boxes. I specifically asked them to start with the kitchen so I would not be required to cook! (smile) Our packers, who were two very sharp gals, nodded knowingly and followed my instructions.




As if moving that week was not excitement enough, our 9th grandchild (5th grandson) was born on the first day of our packing!  The family lives on the other side of the country, so we had to be satisfied with snapshots of the happy event. He came 2 1/2 weeks early, but weighing in at 7 pounds 6 ounces, and 20 inches long, he is healthy and doing just fine.




Beloved took this picture of how the movers staged our furniture on the driveway as they packed the moving van. In spite of the snowstorm earlier than week, we had gorgeous weather for our moving days.




After the last piece of furniture was loaded onto the moving van, Beloved busied himself with vacuuming the entire house while I cleaned bathrooms and dusted. This is the family room of the old house.




We locked up the house and made our way to our new town, about 16 miles from our former residence.  We had dinner at The Blackeyed Pea, which is located a little over a mile from the new house. We will be regulars there for as long as they remain in business!




Our household goods spent the night on the moving van, and since we are too old to camp out (even on padded carpeting), we toughed it out at a local hotel.




As much as I enjoy cooking, I also like to eat out.  We do what we can to keep the local restauranteurs in business.  IHOP makes a great garden omelet.  A busy day was ahead of us, so this hearty breakfast served me well.




The moving van pulled up in front of our driveway shortly after 8 a.m. as promised and began filling up the new house with all of our stuff.




It takes experience and knack with spacial concepts to pack up a moving truck so the contents have minimal shifting while in transit.  Nearly every piece of furniture was wrapped with quilts that were held in place with the biggest rubber bands I have ever seen.




Mountains of boxes served as a temporary room divider between the kitchen and family room. That's Beloved sitting at the breakfast table, making a phone call.




I'm updating our decorating style with this house to less "country" and more contemporary with clean lines and not as many curios and wall hangings. This King-sized bed set from Walmart (for only $50) matched my new look just fine. (comforter, bed skirt, 2 pillow shams and 3 decorative pillows)




Our newest grandson was still strong on our minds through all of the moving excitement.  We were delighted to see this  picture with his eyes open. He is every bit as cute as his 7 siblings and 1 cousin.




The landscaping of our front yard was completed the week we moved in. The landscaping for the back yard has been delayed with our near-weekly snowstorms.  The first thing they had to do was to create a sidewalk that connects the driveway to the back yard -- making it a lot easier to roll the lawn mower back there.




The completed sidewalk is a thing of beauty.  I wanted one of these at our last house but it just never did happen. Note the rock: we live in a semi-arid part of the country, so xeriscaping is well-advised.  We have more rock than grass, which cooperates with watering restrictions during times of drought.




This is our new doormat. As I type this blog post, we have been in the house 10 days. Every day the new place is seeming more like home. We are so glad to be moved and at this stage of the relocation process.  

For the most part, all has gone very well. I have moved many times throughout my life, usually cross country. Moving is a stressful experience, probably more so as we age, even when it's just a few miles.  I am glad we were able to do this now, before we get any older.  Even good changes can be try one's patience as new habit patterns are developed.  We are hopeful this is our last move this side of Heaven.

More pictures of the house interiors will be shared when the rooms are ready for visitors!

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

My Vegan Stir Fry

My Vegan Stir Fry

A few days ago I mentioned that I'm eating more fruits and veggies in an attempt to get better blood lab work scores next month.  With the help of Surfer Girl and some interesting websites, I'm having fun experimenting with new recipes.  The other night I needed to empty out the veggie bin in preparation for our move, and this recipe is what I came up with.  

I cooked the veggies in one large skillet and browned pork slivers in another.  Beloved got the pork on top of his serving of rice and veggies while I used cashews on top of mine.  We both enjoyed this a lot.


a close-up snapshot of the ingredients

My Vegan Stir Fry

red onion, chopped into bite-sized pieces
celery, sliced on the diagonal
carrots, julienned
a handful of chopped kale
garlic, chopped (I used Christopher Ranch chopped garlic from a jar)
2-3 Tablespoons sun-dried tomatoes
Peanut oil
Worcestershire Sauce (soy sauce would be better but I didn't have any that night)
Rice (I used Uncle Ben's Whole Grain Fast and Natural Instant Brown Rice)
roasted cashews


Heat a generous tablespoon of peanut oil in the skillet. (any cooking oil can be used, but Peanut Oil has an especially nice taste and scent for stir-fries).

Add the onion, celery and carrots to the hot oil and cook, stirring so it cooks but does not stick. When the veggies have softened, add the kale, garlic, and sun-dried tomatoes,  stirring to combine.  

Add about a tablespoon or two of the Worcestershire Sauce (although Soy Sauce would be better) and briefly stir, then cover with a lid and turn down the heat. Allow the mixture to warm and cook for several minutes, blending flavors.  

Serve the stir-fried veggies over cooked rice and top with cashews.


yummy!



Sunday, April 21, 2013

Thankful

Our New Home

This week we are in the process of moving from our traditional two-story home with a full finished basement into a ranch floor plan. The housing market is excellent right now for sellers -- our house sold TWICE at full price (the first buyers changed their minds after about 4 days). Both times that it sold were within the same week and within 24 hours of going on the market. We had about 27 showings. It was an exhilarating experience. 

Just a couple of days before listing our house, we put a contract on a house that was already under construction in a town south of here. Now, two and a half months later, that house is finished and we are moving into it as you read this post.  It's been a whirlwind time with lots of high moments along with nostalgia as we leave our home for the last 16 years.  

But it's all good and we are thankful to the Lord for His generous goodness and provision.  

The Lord has done this, 
and it is marvelous in our eyes.

Psalm 118:23